If You’ve Never Failed, You’ve Never Lived [VIDEO]

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Dream Big

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Dream does not cost a thing.
Why would you dream small, when you can dream big.

Just had a fortune cookie moment……

Links You Don’t Want To Miss #8

I have not written a Links You Don’t Want To Miss post in a long time . I thought it was not helpful and did not want to write them if nobody is going to read. I was wrong. Lately I have gotten a lot of RT and lovely tweets from my followers about them. People love them more than I thought. It is nice to share my favorite links of the week with you again.

Links You Don’t Want To Miss 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7

How To Start A Blog In 2012  This post might be not new to many of you but I think it is a good reminder. I agree with Mitch Joel that starting a blog in 2012 is not easy but it is not impossible.

Influence is not popularity and popularity is not influence Read more…

Sometime All You Need To Do Is Ask

Friends Source: Rishi S

Yesterday I had a fight with one of my guy friends. Let’s call him Lonely Boy because our friendship is a lot like Dan Humphrey and Blair Waldorf friendship from Gossip Girl. And we all know I am a lot like the vain bitchy Blair Waldorf who idolizes Audrey Hepburn, classic movies and upscale traditions. Lonely Boy is not the typical type of guy I would hang out with. We are very different but we get along very well.  Back to the fight, it was my fault. I was moody and unreasonable as always. A kind friend of mine was trying to be  peacemaker. She was trying to convince me that Lonely Boy likes me and I should ask him out. LOL That was kind of cute. She is so sweet and kind. It does not matter if my friend is right or not, I would never ask Lonely Boy out. If he likes me, he needs to learn to ask to get what he wants. Plus I don’t even think he likes me. Read more…

Don’t Sell A Product, Open A Market [REVIEW]

A while ago I came to my father with a business idea. I cannot remember what it was is exactly. I think it was fashion related. Anyway this was my father reaction.

You can do beyond this. Don’t just sell a product, you need to sell an idea. You cannot work for money because you will end up doing it your entire life. Start a market for people, and they will work for you their entire lives. Focus on what you are good at.

I really did not realize that by focusing on doing small things, I did not see the big picture. For example, most apps in Apple store are not from Apple. Apple created a market for developers to sell their apps, and it takes 30% of sale revenue. Facebook does not charge users subscription fee to use the social network. But it makes a big amount of money from advertising. It started a market for people to promote their brands. This is somewhat complicated to understand and every few people can success. Selling an idea is very hard, but if you success you can make a lot of money. Because when you can convince people that your market is the right place, you don’t have to worry much and can collect money in your sleep.

If you want to make money, sell a product. If you want to make a lot of money, start a market.

Yesterday I went to pre-launch party of Uber, a location based car service. You know I rarely write review. I just don’t find review posts are timeless enough. I am not the typical Torontonian blogger who would write a post like this “I have partied here, the company gave me some perks and that is why they are awesome.” Free food and drink are not a good enough reason for me to write a post, I can afford them.

Why would I write about these guys?

  1. I heard about Uber months ago on Robert Scoble’s Google+ . The tech celebrity’s wallet was stolen and Uber saved the day.  I have wanted to check out the start-up since December. When Lucas from Uber invited me the pre-launch, even it was fashion week, I did not want to miss it.
  2. I had a interesting talk with a member from Uber team.  It was not the brilliant co-founders or the smart adorable Community Manager Lucas. I talked to a driver. Nobody can be a better brand ambassador than  its own people. He really convinced to write this post. Alexander, my driver told me why he loves being partner with Uber. He told me that the company gave him the power to control his  time. Whenever he wants to work, he just need to press a button on his iPhone. Uber  gives him a lot more freedom than previous companies he worked for.

I realized Uber is more than just a car service. It is a bridge connecting drivers and consumers. They did not just start a service, they started a market. They make on-demand private car service so simple. The app connects consumers with suppliers within a few clicks. A driver who has a car that meets the company standard can become a partner easily. Uber can expand their service into new city easily because both supply and demand are there already. I like when I learn a lesson from a party.

Not only like the business idea, the service is very neat too. When I visit my father in Vietnam, I was so used to have personal driver. Every day, in the morning I would text the driver. He would pick me up and drive me around the city. I did not have to worry about parking [ it is a nightmare in Asia] nor paying anything.  I miss being spoiled. Taxi is just not the same as having a personal driver [ I used to take cab so much. I used to call taxi driver directly like my personal driver.] Uber made me felt like I just got my personal driver back.

The service is great because it is 

  • Safe – It feels much safer than taxi because I know who the driver is.  There are name, a picture and phone number that I can call. Most of time, I don’t feel the same way with taxi’s driver especially at night. Also if you forget something in the car, it is very to track.
  • Simple – You can order a car with a few clicks. You can track the location of the cars from your smartphone.  If you don’t have a smartphone, you can still order a car with SMS. If you get lost and have no idea where you are, it won’t be a problem. The driver will know where to pick you up with the help of GPS. The app is very simple to use, even my 5 years old sister can use it. After the ride, Uber will automatically charge your credit card.
  • Luxurious - The car looks very clean. The driver dresses very neat. It looks much more presentable than a cab. What is better than arriving a red carpet event with a person driver who will open your door? Best part, it costs less than a limo.

However there are a few problems:

  •  The GPS is not 100% accurate.  I don’t think it is Uber’s fault.  I have never had good experience with GPS. You might need to move the pin around to get exact address. You can always call your driver if you entered the wrong address like I did.
  • It is so easy to pocket dial and order a car. Because it is so easy to use the app, you can easily order it by accident. And if you have small children, it might be a little dangerous. To solve this problem, I locked my app. If I want to use the service, I will have to enter a password.
  • It is not available everywhere. For now you can only use the service in Boston, Chicago, Los Angeles, New York, Paris, San Francisco, Seattle, Toronto and Washington, D.C.

I really like the service because it makes me feel like I am home. If Uber comes up with an on-demand maid service, I will love them forever.

When Page Views Are Meaningless

I don’t blog for money. I don’t bother to put any ads on both of my blogs. I write because I like sharing my stories. Maybe one day I can look back and see how silly I was.

It really means a lot when you take your time and read my posts.  Yesterday I got this tweet from @_thatsheart, and it made my day.

I was at a party and I almost cried when I read the tweet. It means a lot to a blogger like me because  now I know that I have been doing the right thing. No page views, number of RT, likes,  +1s would make me this happy. At the end of the day no number is really matter except the number of people who actually cares.

Thank you all for all the support.

Thanks  @_thatsheart for your love. You taught me a lesson

If you care about something, show it; because it might mean the world to someone.

The Price of Free

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Not long ago I had the most painful “free” dinner I have ever had.  Before that day I did not know “free” food can hurt that much. It reminds me of a lesson I always tell the kids. Read more…

Ducks Like Food Not Music, Lesson From The River

Yesterday, my sis and I walked to Humber River. We saw two guys sitting near the river feeding ducks. Alicia loves ducks. She wanted to play with them. She got her phone out and played some soft romantic music. Five minutes later, nothing happened, and this the lesson she learned. Read more…

Changing Education Paradigms [ VIDEO]

Annie Brown [@anniecannie] introduced me to this video, and I love it.

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The Best Lesson My Parents Taught Me

“Nothing that is worth knowing can be taught.”

-Oscar Wilde

Last night, I had a chat about education with Julian Shenoy [@JulianMKTR] on Twitter and it reminded me  of a story.

During my trip to Vietnam a few years ago, I met a smart lady friend of my father, Tuyet. She was so nice to me and we hung out a lot. She told me the story how she met my father.

Eight years ago, after my mother took my sister and me to Canada, my father stayed behind  to rebuild his legacy. One day Tuyet and her husband came to my father’s apartment to pitch their interior design service.  My father recognized that the very bright young lady was not educated, and he didn’t want the talent to be wasted. Tuyet came from a poor little town in Vietnam. She dropped out at an early age to work and support her family. Before she met my father,Tuyet did not even know when Vietnam’s Independence Day is. My father spent hours every night after work tutoring Tuyet. Few years later, he hired her as vice president of one of his companies.

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I was surprised because my dad did not teach me like he taught Tuyet at all. My parents rarely help me with school work or directly teach me anything. I only remember my mom helping me with my homework  in grade one because I was struggling [ all my classmate took summer school.They  already knew how to read before school started, and I didn't]. I came to my dad and asked him why he does not teach me.

And this was his answer Read more…