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Common Sense Is Not So….Common

Definition of COMMON SENSE
: sound and prudent judgment based on a simple perception of the situation or facts

Merriam Webster

Yesterday I was going to write a post about an incident in my life. I told a friend about it and she was shocked. I did not expect that at all because it is normal in my world. Backstabbing and framing others  is nothing new in business. Before yesterday I thought it was common sense.

I grew up as part of an elite society in a third world country. My family talks about business, politic and culture during dinner. When I was 6, I already followed the United States presidential election.  I read economic and marketing magazines since I was 8. By the age of 12, I already  learned war strategies and face reading ( and I am so bad at face reading). It felt normal to me because most people around me know it.  It is survival skill that we need to know.  And I thought all the other kids learned the same thing.

I was wrong.

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Anything Can Happen If You Believe In Yourself And Your Dream [VIDEO]

The only dreams impossible to reach are the ones you never pursue.

~ Michael Deckman

My blog is about how the people in my life inspired me and all the lessons I learned from them.My parents taught me about life . My friend opened my mind to the importance of nurturing relationship. Another friend showed me the value of a community. I learned about business from a smart company. Everyone insprised me in some way. And I would not be the same person as I am today without them.

Lessons can come from both success and failure.

~ Monster

I enjoy learning from everyone and share it with you all. If something inspired me, it might inspire you too. A few days ago, I came across this video on Google+

Caine’s Arcade is short film about a smart 9-year-old boy named Caine who made his own  arcade games out of cardboard. The kid puts all his heart and passion into this business. His first customer Nirvan Mullick, a filmmaker arranged a surprise for the young enterprenuer with a customer flashmob. With the power of the internet, the video went viral after a few days and raised $136K for Caine’s college fund. Nirvan Mullick saw an opportunity and made a little kid’s dream become reality. I admire both Caine and Nirvan for all their hard works.

It shows  that anything can be possible if you believe in yourself and your dream. Also an inspiring story does not end after you learned a lesson.

Sharing is caring.

The more we share the more  people will be inspired by the story. This is one of the reasons why I am blogging and tweeting. I love adding value to people’s lives and spreading the love.  I am learning so much from sharing with you guys . It is one of the greatest joy. I came across an interesting contest on Twitter. Who Inspires You is a contest sponsored Tri-Cyclen Lo to help empower young women across Canada. The idea is uploading a video of 5 minutes or less to Youtube and telling what you aspire to be and how you would use the $10,000 to achieve your inspirational dream.  It is a chance to inspire people with your dream. More important than the prize, you will meet some amazing inspiring young women around Canada and learn a lot from them.  There are so much to learn from everyone around us.

For more details on rules and regulations, you can check out the contest’s website. I really wish that the contest is opened to younger kids so my little Monster can enter too. It is a good opportunity for her to develop her character. I guess she will have to wait a few years. There is also a monthly contest with some sweet prizes. You can find out more info on the contest’s website, Twitter or Facebook page.

Be the change you want to see in the world.

~ Mahatma Gandhi

Many years ago, I started a non-profit organization from one thread on a popular forum. At that time I had no sponsors, just a big dream and lots of energy.

Anything can happen if you believe in yourself and your dream.

A video, tweet, or blog post you create today might be the beginning for something big tomorrow.

Good luck.

Deadline: May 18th, 2012. Don’t miss it :)

Disclosure: This post is sponsored byTri-Cyclen Lo. However all opinions expressed are my honest opinions based on my personal experiences :). I can write a paragraph like many other bloggers or show the world what I believe in and inspire others. :)

 

The Love Story [VIDEO]

I cry anytime I watch this video…..

Enjoy

When Love Fades….A New Beginning

When I started this blog, I did not care about blogging at all. My followers kept asking me why I did not have a blog. To be honest, I started blogging because you guys annoyed me way too much. I just did not want to have another person asking me why I didn’t have a blog. I had Twitter already. Plus we all know I cannot write in any language. I did not see a point to maintain a blog.  I did not really care what I was writing about nor if I have any readers.

Things change and people change too.

I am not an exception.

When love fades

As time passes, my relationship with Twitter is not the same anymore. Everyday I log on and ask myself why I am here. I am not saying Twitter is not useful anymore. It is still a very important tool. But  I do not think Twitter reflects who I am as person anymore. Read more…

The Only Thing That Matters Is Who You Are Today

While cleaning my room, I found a poster of The Last Supper. It reminds me of a story.

 

The story behind painting of the Last Supper is extremely interesting and instructive. Two incidents connected with this painting afford a most convincing lesson on the effects of sin in our lives.

As you know, the Last Supper was painted by Leonard Da Vinci, a noted Italian artist. The time engaged for its completion was seven years. The figures representing the twelve apostles and Christ himself were painted from living persons. The live model for the painting of the figure of Jesus was chosen first. When it was decided that Da Vinci would paint this great picture, hundreds and hundreds of young men were carefully viewed in an endeavor to find a face and personality of unaffected by sin. Read more…

If You’ve Never Failed, You’ve Never Lived [VIDEO]

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Dream Big

Image: dev null

Dream does not cost a thing.
Why would you dream small, when you can dream big.

Just had a fortune cookie moment……

Sometime All You Need To Do Is Ask

Friends Source: Rishi S

Yesterday I had a fight with one of my guy friends. Let’s call him Lonely Boy because our friendship is a lot like Dan Humphrey and Blair Waldorf friendship from Gossip Girl. And we all know I am a lot like the vain bitchy Blair Waldorf who idolizes Audrey Hepburn, classic movies and upscale traditions. Lonely Boy is not the typical type of guy I would hang out with. We are very different but we get along very well.  Back to the fight, it was my fault. I was moody and unreasonable as always. A kind friend of mine was trying to be  peacemaker. She was trying to convince me that Lonely Boy likes me and I should ask him out. LOL That was kind of cute. She is so sweet and kind. It does not matter if my friend is right or not, I would never ask Lonely Boy out. If he likes me, he needs to learn to ask to get what he wants. Plus I don’t even think he likes me. Read more…

Don’t Sell A Product, Open A Market [REVIEW]

A while ago I came to my father with a business idea. I cannot remember what it was is exactly. I think it was fashion related. Anyway this was my father reaction.

You can do beyond this. Don’t just sell a product, you need to sell an idea. You cannot work for money because you will end up doing it your entire life. Start a market for people, and they will work for you their entire lives. Focus on what you are good at.

I really did not realize that by focusing on doing small things, I did not see the big picture. For example, most apps in Apple store are not from Apple. Apple created a market for developers to sell their apps, and it takes 30% of sale revenue. Facebook does not charge users subscription fee to use the social network. But it makes a big amount of money from advertising. It started a market for people to promote their brands. This is somewhat complicated to understand and every few people can success. Selling an idea is very hard, but if you success you can make a lot of money. Because when you can convince people that your market is the right place, you don’t have to worry much and can collect money in your sleep.

If you want to make money, sell a product. If you want to make a lot of money, start a market.

Yesterday I went to pre-launch party of Uber, a location based car service. You know I rarely write review. I just don’t find review posts are timeless enough. I am not the typical Torontonian blogger who would write a post like this “I have partied here, the company gave me some perks and that is why they are awesome.” Free food and drink are not a good enough reason for me to write a post, I can afford them.

Why would I write about these guys?

  1. I heard about Uber months ago on Robert Scoble’s Google+ . The tech celebrity’s wallet was stolen and Uber saved the day.  I have wanted to check out the start-up since December. When Lucas from Uber invited me the pre-launch, even it was fashion week, I did not want to miss it.
  2. I had a interesting talk with a member from Uber team.  It was not the brilliant co-founders or the smart adorable Community Manager Lucas. I talked to a driver. Nobody can be a better brand ambassador than  its own people. He really convinced to write this post. Alexander, my driver told me why he loves being partner with Uber. He told me that the company gave him the power to control his  time. Whenever he wants to work, he just need to press a button on his iPhone. Uber  gives him a lot more freedom than previous companies he worked for.

I realized Uber is more than just a car service. It is a bridge connecting drivers and consumers. They did not just start a service, they started a market. They make on-demand private car service so simple. The app connects consumers with suppliers within a few clicks. A driver who has a car that meets the company standard can become a partner easily. Uber can expand their service into new city easily because both supply and demand are there already. I like when I learn a lesson from a party.

Not only like the business idea, the service is very neat too. When I visit my father in Vietnam, I was so used to have personal driver. Every day, in the morning I would text the driver. He would pick me up and drive me around the city. I did not have to worry about parking [ it is a nightmare in Asia] nor paying anything.  I miss being spoiled. Taxi is just not the same as having a personal driver [ I used to take cab so much. I used to call taxi driver directly like my personal driver.] Uber made me felt like I just got my personal driver back.

The service is great because it is 

  • Safe – It feels much safer than taxi because I know who the driver is.  There are name, a picture and phone number that I can call. Most of time, I don’t feel the same way with taxi’s driver especially at night. Also if you forget something in the car, it is very to track.
  • Simple – You can order a car with a few clicks. You can track the location of the cars from your smartphone.  If you don’t have a smartphone, you can still order a car with SMS. If you get lost and have no idea where you are, it won’t be a problem. The driver will know where to pick you up with the help of GPS. The app is very simple to use, even my 5 years old sister can use it. After the ride, Uber will automatically charge your credit card.
  • Luxurious - The car looks very clean. The driver dresses very neat. It looks much more presentable than a cab. What is better than arriving a red carpet event with a person driver who will open your door? Best part, it costs less than a limo.

However there are a few problems:

  •  The GPS is not 100% accurate.  I don’t think it is Uber’s fault.  I have never had good experience with GPS. You might need to move the pin around to get exact address. You can always call your driver if you entered the wrong address like I did.
  • It is so easy to pocket dial and order a car. Because it is so easy to use the app, you can easily order it by accident. And if you have small children, it might be a little dangerous. To solve this problem, I locked my app. If I want to use the service, I will have to enter a password.
  • It is not available everywhere. For now you can only use the service in Boston, Chicago, Los Angeles, New York, Paris, San Francisco, Seattle, Toronto and Washington, D.C.

I really like the service because it makes me feel like I am home. If Uber comes up with an on-demand maid service, I will love them forever.

When Page Views Are Meaningless

I don’t blog for money. I don’t bother to put any ads on both of my blogs. I write because I like sharing my stories. Maybe one day I can look back and see how silly I was.

It really means a lot when you take your time and read my posts.  Yesterday I got this tweet from @_thatsheart, and it made my day.

I was at a party and I almost cried when I read the tweet. It means a lot to a blogger like me because  now I know that I have been doing the right thing. No page views, number of RT, likes,  +1s would make me this happy. At the end of the day no number is really matter except the number of people who actually cares.

Thank you all for all the support.

Thanks  @_thatsheart for your love. You taught me a lesson

If you care about something, show it; because it might mean the world to someone.